God has complete and total control over our lives, and He will help us. We need to still seek after the next Job, the right wife/husband, or even the next ministry opportunity. God will help and guide us, and will lead us to the right opportunity, for the need that we are waiting for, whatever that need is, whether big or small. God will lead us to what it is that He has for us. We sometimes think that the small area's in our lives that we are dealing with, God doesn't care about, and that the bigger area's that we are dealing with, God is to big to handle those area's but that just isn't the case at all. If it was, than maybe I wouldn't be here, and I wouldn't be where I am today. We need to give ourselves some encouragement once in a while, when the door that we think would open, closed.
When the person that we think would be our future husband or wife, dumps us. We need to remember that when the door closes that their is a reason and a purpose for that door to close. We need to say okay God, I realize that you have this in the palm of your hand and you will work it out according to your plan and purpose for my life, and that you will work in out in your timing. I have needed to say that to myself before, and although I get frustrated sometimes because the doors didn't open, I know that God will open it in his timing and plan.
Here are a few scripture verses that we can use, to guide us every step of the way.
“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord … ”(Psalm 37:23)"A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.” (Proverbs 16:9)
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye." (Psalm 32:8)
“The Lord will guide you continually …” (Isaiah 58:11)
"Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires
of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He
shall bring it to pass Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him.” (Psalm 37:4,7)
As I said earlier we have to continually seek the right door, person, opportunity, but it is God who in the end will open the right door, find us the right person, or opportunity that He has for us. It may not even be any of these things it may be something financial, it may be finding a house, it may be finding the right car, it may be finding the what we want to do in our lives, what college we want to go to and what we want to study. Sometimes those doors even close, and we wonder why, in the end God had a purpose for why He closed the door.
Whatever it is God has it all planned out for us. We just need to rest, and wait upon him, we can't get nervous, frustrated, or angry about the closed doors, we can't let that eat at us. Their is a saying that "God is never late, But he is never early" to me that sounds like God is always on time. I want to close with this last verse Philippians 4:6, Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be known to God, 7, and the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.